Thank you all for your supportive comments.
There was a bright side to all this.
I got to cwtch with a young man for a good while.
And he did not run away.
Not a funny situation but I managed to make him smile while he was in pain by saying that to him.
I have found him on Facebook and he only lives a little way from me so I will be in touch in a couple of days.
Night night. Pam